Love Life, Live Life
Life; filled with obstacles, road bumps, curves, and debris.
Navigating all of this takes determination, direction, passion, and love for
one another. The most devastating thing in life is when you realize that the person
you care for deeply isn’t affected in the manner in which you thought they
might in your absence. So many times love lost, so many times life found. Not
all that wander are lost. Most are in process of finding their way. Forging
through and pressing on, with a destination to be determined upon arrival.
We
live our lives with the knowledge that we may never know the meaning of it all.
A constant feeling of “to be determined”.
All anyone can do to avoid the feeling of helplessness is to laugh at
the obscurity of life itself. Really, we start dependent upon others and end dependent
upon others. What did we accomplish in the middle? Maybe find love? Maybe work
our asses off for somebody else’s pockets? Maybe raise kids, and hope they turn
out better than we did? And when they disappoint then what? The constant
reflection of our parenting skills or lack thereof. A big fat circus filled
with foolishness for the purpose of making a “higher” power amused?
Destiny or
Self-Directed? If I’m destined for where I’ve been I’ll take my chances with
carving out my own path. One filled with laughter and one filled with
entertainment and joy. Stress is a stupid thing. Self imposed for the purpose
of making ourselves feel more important than we really are. Look at all the
things passing us by? Look at all of the beauty, energy, simplicity, and
complexity of life that surrounds us. What time have I made to look at this?
What time have I set aside to take a slow stroll down the street, through the
park? When was the last time any of us went anywhere without a premeditated
purpose. Where did the spontaneity go in life? Remember back to your childhood
when everyday was a new day. Something new to learn, something new to do. And
with each new discovery came a new sense of accomplishment, even if we didn’t recognize
it as such.
Today I pledge to live with the purpose of no purpose. Only in the
meaning that nothing is too important to get upset or anxious about. Things
will occur good and bad. How you handle each is what determines character. Love
life, live life.